Where’s the help for ‘Sandwich moms’?
I was in the middle of helping my mom out of her hospital bed to the bathroom when my son called and couldn’t find his cleats. Both of these tasks would have been manageable, except for the fact that my work email inbox had just passed 100 “unread” messages again. Each was occupying space in the back of my mind, and the word “drowning” kept flashing in front of my eyes, like a warning on a bomb that was about to explode. But the emergent and exhausting situation I found myself in, taking care of both the older and younger generation, doesn’t have a term for how you feel like you might drown or explode at all. Instead, we’ve coined the phrase “sandwich moms.” Or, even cuter, Lauren Wittenberg Weiner , PhD, author and business therapist in Tampa, Florida, calls it the “panini generation.” “The panini generation means pressures not just from above and below—parents and kids—but from all sides… I have two amazing kids, both of whom play competitive ice hockey (and frequently break them...